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Oct 5, 2011 16:32:02 GMT -5
Post by malevolentmask on Oct 5, 2011 16:32:02 GMT -5
Feel free to ignore this, its just a major rant I kind of just hate my friends sometimes. For the most part I'm a fairly optimistic person the only thing that gets me down is when I realize that my friends really don't care about me, at all. Every-time I'm reminded of that fact I just feel awful, to the point of not wanting to talk to anyone. The fact that I really hate myself doesn't help much either. Everyday i'm nervous about what people think or say about me, I don't even act honestly anymore, I just try to seem "normal" I've gotten on my hands and knees for my friends every time they needed help but when it comes to actually being friends they just don't care. I'm just a simple toss and throw away friend. They could be talking to me at first but once they find their other group of friends I'm left in the dust, not literally but for the most part no one cares about what I have to say if I speak up. I just hate it, I hate being social and hate dealing with relationships in general. I always get my hopes up but in the end I just get let down, its disappointing...
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Oct 5, 2011 16:36:18 GMT -5
Post by NeonAzure on Oct 5, 2011 16:36:18 GMT -5
God, do I know how you feel... -.-
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Oct 5, 2011 16:46:54 GMT -5
Post by siffyleafylav on Oct 5, 2011 16:46:54 GMT -5
I got girls like that in my class, and now they've involed tw of my best friends into this stupid game of theirs.
I'ts very sucky and a royal itch to have happen to you, but rather one god true friend than a whole load who'll drop ya.
*swings arm around shoudlers* It''ll work out m'dear, this''ll pass. adn nice qoute my sister used
"This too, shall pass"
Hope you feel better soon!
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beccawolf16
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Oct 5, 2011 20:02:17 GMT -5
Post by beccawolf16 on Oct 5, 2011 20:02:17 GMT -5
I understand how you feel, I've had several "good" friends of mine totally ditch me before, and it's not a good feeling. The thing you've got to remember is that really true friends are hard to come by, but you shouldn't give up on trying to find one. People change, and sometimes that causes friendships to be strained, and sometimes people just try to take advatage of you. That's just the way things are. But I guaruntee that somebody out there is looking for someone that they can depend on too, and they'll jump at the chance to become friends with you! You shouldn't give up, because you don't want to be lonely all your life. That's no fun! Just keep looking and, who knows, you best-friend-for-ever might be just around the corner.
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Rosalinda
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Sweet Little Bug
Thats How We Are.. La Seine and I
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Oct 5, 2011 20:06:23 GMT -5
Post by Rosalinda on Oct 5, 2011 20:06:23 GMT -5
God i hate when that happens :I
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Oct 6, 2011 12:49:23 GMT -5
Post by Patchlamb on Oct 6, 2011 12:49:23 GMT -5
Ohhh, I also know very much how that feels!
My best friend is becoming- dare I say- a little indecent? She and I are very close friends. We laugh and she comes over a lot. Though I fear she is changing because of the way high school is. It's a rather sad thought. . she's flirting a bit too much, I think. It is okay when she cannot help it, but she's recently had a break up a good few days ago and is already flirting and hugging up on people. Because of that her attenion is less focused on myself. I don't want to sound selfish- only she used to talk and spend more time with me than she does now.
If someone says her name while I am talking to her, she'll start talking to them while I'm still talking. Thus, ignoring me. This happens several times. I have to repeat myself a lot, now. . . it may take 3 or 4 tries to just get a senetnce or two out to her!
So I feel for you! Do know that even if your friend ignores you and blows you off, you've always us here to talk to!
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Oct 6, 2011 14:42:32 GMT -5
Post by malevolentmask on Oct 6, 2011 14:42:32 GMT -5
Thanks everyone and yeah I feel a bit better and at Patch one of my friends is like that when she's in relationships. She gives all her attention to her boyfriend and tends to ignore her friends around her. I kind of prefer when she's single, I always get really pissed at how her boyfriends dump her in a really lame way in the end though. >:I
I guess even though my friends irritate me I still really care about them.
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Crispilee
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Friendship is Madness!
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Oct 16, 2011 18:42:01 GMT -5
Post by Crispilee on Oct 16, 2011 18:42:01 GMT -5
Awww! I remember when I had a best friend that I hung out with all of the time and then she started hanging out with these older girls. Like, if she was over my house, I'd give her all of my attention and respect and make sure no one else came. But if I was at her house, her older friends kinda barged in and I would be ignored and uncomfortable around them. Not to mention they even hooked her up with a boy once and she'd never shut up about how great he was. And this was all in between the near end of 6th grade and begining of 7th grade!
We had plans for Halloween in 7th grade, great plans together. Buuuuut her older friends were more important, so she had to ditch me at the last second. That's when I knew I couldn't stand it anymore and I never talked to her again. I've had plenty of friends, but I've never really had a best friend since.....Not IRL, at least. <3
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maddlythedumbass
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Nov 24, 2011 22:31:00 GMT -5
Post by maddlythedumbass on Nov 24, 2011 22:31:00 GMT -5
man you just look them in the eye and whisper "yo homes smell ya later" thats what i do it works.
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